Life with Baby K

July 12, 2008

The Nagging Wife vs. The Husband with the Thick Head

Filed under: Hubby,IVF #1 Round 2 — by Jess @ 11:29 pm
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Sometimes I really feel like knocking my husband upside his head! I don’t want to be the nagging wife, yet I feel like I have to nag and yell at him for things to get through his head. He doesn’t think about how much money things cost. He took money out of our bank account again today for stupid stuff without checking with me first. He has no clue what is coming out of our bank account on what days or what bills are due when. Ahhhh, he drives me crazy sometimes! He has never had any financial responsibilities before we got married and he just doesn’t get it. It was only $20 but he does this often. I ended up yelling at him tonight and he said he was sorry and would put the money back in when he gets paid next week. But experience tells me that this won’t be the last time this happens. I could try to sit down with him and show him what we have for bills every month but he gets the glazed over, checked out look on his face whenever I try to sit him down to discuss things like that. (Picture wedding planning…) I know that we have only been married for a couple of year (two years in Oct) and that young married couples go through ups and downs, especially when you through infertility into the mix as well. But gosh I don’t like the hard and frustrating times!!!

I am moody and hormonal and it is probably being made ten times worse due to my hormones….I love my husband more than anything, sometimes I just feel the need to kick him! You know???

Oh by the way, I POAS this morning and it was negative so the trigger shot is out of my system!!! I am going to try to make it until Wednesday to test again. We’ll see how that works out.



  1. Yea, well BOTH of us are clueless when it comes to money! And we’ve been together for 15 years! It does however get easier as you age, because hopefully your income increases. Having a net there to catch you when you fall is a good thing.

    Best of luck this week! Hope that little one sticks!

    Comment by pj — July 13, 2008 @ 11:43 am |Reply

  2. Good luck, I am sending you sticky vibes that you can get your BFP!!

    Comment by mthdbnd09 — July 14, 2008 @ 11:25 am |Reply

  3. Crossing my fingers!!!

    Comment by Alison — July 14, 2008 @ 1:45 pm |Reply

  4. Well flip the roles in my family where my wife is the exact as your husband deer in headlights or stomping feet not understanding why she cant get anymore money….What I HATE is when she writes checks when I say we dont have the money, shes like well it wont clear before you get paid next….grrrrrrrrrrrrrr 🙂

    Comment by mike — July 20, 2008 @ 11:03 pm |Reply

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